Does “Fake It ‘Til We Make it” Really Work?

Isn’t there a famous quote that “The truth shall set you free?” Wouldn’t it be great to tell the truth all the time instead of masking our unpleasantries? I see this happen all the time when working on grant proposals. Organizations try to cover up a misuse of funds or embellish a program that might not be making as much of an impact. I think we could all use a bit of forgiveness of our transgressions as we start to be real about who we are and want we do. Ask yourself:

  • Are my actions going to negatively impact my constituents or the larger organization?
  • Will the truth eventually be uncovered through a strategic planning process or financial audit?
  • Will this have any negative consequence on staff morale?
  • Why did this end up happening in the first place?

I tell my children that a lie will eventually be found out and serves a learning opportunity. Maybe instead of seeing a negative, you can turn it around and replace with a positive need for change:

  1. What can you do regarding fundraising if you have not met your financial goals?
  2. Are staffing changes or reorganizations needed to make sure you have adequate internal controls?
  3. How are you measuring impact and is this happening continuously?
  4. How are you sharing this information with funders and board members to plan for success and sustainability?

truthLies have a way of surfacing and it is better to be truthful than cover up these transgressions with other lies. In the end, it will help improve how you work!